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Sasha Brown-Worsham's avatar

A.) Threads is amazing. B.) That photo and your story and your vibe are all stunning. Not surprised at all that they inspire people. C.) Thanks for the shout out. You are the first friend I made on Substack and I love your writing and ideas.

The Preferred Edit's avatar

A + B + C = Gratitude and Friendship

Mohana Gupta's avatar

This was such a refreshing read.

As someone who’s still relatively new to Substack, I think the biggest surprise for me has been realizing that the posts that resonate most are rarely the ones we overthink. They’re often the ones written from a place of honesty, curiosity, or genuine observation.

I’ve spent years in travel and storytelling, and the same pattern shows up there too. You can plan everything perfectly, but sometimes it’s the unexpected moments that people remember.

The part about consistency creating the opportunity for luck really stayed with me. We call it luck afterwards, but nobody sees the hundreds of notes, conversations, articles, and quiet days of showing up that came before it.

Congratulations on the growth, but even more on building the habit that made it possible. 🤍

Rev. Kevin T. Taylor's avatar

Mohana, your observation about consistency creating the opportunity for luck feels especially relevant here. People often see the moment something breaks through and assume it appeared out of nowhere, when in reality it is usually connected to a long period of showing up without guarantees. The unexpected post may be the spark, but the conditions that allowed it to matter were built through all the writing, experimenting, and contributing that came before. Thank you for adding a perspective that honors both the surprise of the moment and the discipline that made it possible.

Rev. Kevin T. Taylor's avatar

Leslie, one reason this story is so compelling is that it illustrates the difference between visibility and resonance. Many people assume growth comes from perfect strategy, yet the moments that travel furthest are often the ones that reveal something true without trying to manufacture a response. The messages you received suggest that people were not reacting to a viral post as much as they were responding to evidence that joy, love, and new beginnings remain possible after profound loss. Thank you for sharing a reminder that when we speak honestly from a place of lived experience, we sometimes offer hope to others before we even realize we are doing it.

Act II, Unscripted's avatar

"The deliberate work got me in the room. The thing I didn't think about is what people could feel." I needed to read that today specifically.

Two months in, doing the small deliberate things, wondering if any of it is working. This is a good reminder that the work and the moment aren't the same thing — and both matter. Thank you for writing it.

Judy Dippel's avatar

Love the frank honesty!

David Legus's avatar

Those were the sweetest two words I’ve ever heard. ❤️